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Jan 08 2009

(Almost) Caught In The Candy Jar

Just the other day, I had my dollar in my hand, itchin’ to plant it somewhere for someone to find…

In the reception area of our office, the gals at the front desk always keep a dish stocked with candies and chocolates for visitors and tenants. So I began rummaging through the chocolates, pretending to be searching for that special piece of which I wanted to partake. Actually, though, what I was doing was waiting for the two of them to look the other way so I could bury my dollar at the bottom of the dish! Finally, I had my lucky break!!…

And who knows who’ll find it – An unsuspecting candy lover, or those two who do the restocking!!!

Happy New Year to you, and remember, the best part of Give Away A Dollar A Day is how much fun it is!!!!!!!

Todd

Jan 03 2009

A Personal Story

Here’s a story I wrote for a contest put on by True North Snacks.

I hope that this true and personal story will inspire folks who feel fear and uncertainty about the current global economic situation.

In mid 2007, I was in prayer one morning with a question on my mind. Three years prior, I had made some poor financial and investment decisions that were catastrophic to my whole family. And now, three years later, it looked like we were going to go under. I had tried everything from reading to workshops to support groups to extensive interviewing… but nothing was panning out.

The question I was asking in prayer was, “what do I do?” I had run out of ideas. I didn’t know how to get us back on track. I had no excuses either – as a degreed engineer, I should have known better.

I finally received my answer – and it was to give away a dollar a day. My initial thought was, “how can I when I don’t have anything left to give or to let go of?!” None of this made sense at first, until I quit trying to understand it with my mind, and began to feel it in my heart.

Now it is November 2008, and I’m still giving away. I was also blessed with a fantastic job a couple months after I began, and many more wonderful miracles have been happening in my life since.

I now realize that what I did was let go of what I was fearing to lose. Go ahead and read that again… There is immense power in those words.

I’m not rich by any measure, but I am able to give away a dollar, every day. You don’t have to be rich to give. And when you give, every day, no matter the amount, I’ll bet your life will turn around – just like mine did!

Blessings!

Todd

Dec 29 2008

Law Of Attraction Radio Show!

I was recently a guest on Jewels Johnson’s Law Of Attraction Radio Show!

It was awesome! And all about how unconditional giving with Give Away A Dollar A Day fits right in with the Law Of Attraction.

When you get a chance, listen to it here. Just look below the big graphic on the left for my show that aired 12/21/2008. You’ll have the choice to either listen (play) or download for listening later, when it is most convenient for you. I think you’ll like it!!

And remember, giving is good karma!

Todd

Dec 24 2008

A Different Christmas Poem

I’m for peace, not war. In fact, I don’t really even understand war, or why we think we must fight in the first place, because there is never a positive outcome. Nonetheless, there are the men and the women who make the greatest possible sacrifice to serve… And I believe that THESE are the real heroes. THESE folks are the ones who are the real leaders.

My wife sent me this poem, and I am passing it to you. Will you join me in honoring and remembering our service men and women this Holiday Season?

The embers glowed softly, and in their dim light,
I gazed round the room and I cherished the sight.
My wife was asleep, her head on my chest,
My daughter beside me, angelic in rest.
Outside the snow fell, a blanket of white,
Transforming the yard to a winter delight.

The sparkling lights in the tree I believe,
Completed the magic that was Christmas Eve.
My eyelids were heavy, my breathing was deep,
Secure and surrounded by love I would sleep.
In perfect contentment, or so it would seem,
So I slumbered, perhaps I started to dream.

The sound wasn’t loud, and it wasn’t too near,
But I opened my eyes when it tickled my ear.
Perhaps just a cough, I didn’t quite know, Then the
sure sound of footsteps outside in the snow.
My soul gave a tremble, I struggled to hear,
And I crept to the door just to see who was near.

Standing out in the cold and the dark of the night,
A lone figure stood, his face weary and tight.
A soldier, I puzzled, some twenty years old,
Perhaps a Marine, huddled here in the cold.
Alone in the dark, he looked up and smiled,
Standing watch over me, and my wife and my child.

“What are you doing?” I asked without fear,
“Come in this moment, it’s freezing out here!
Put down your pack, brush the snow from your sleeve,
You should be at home on a cold Christmas Eve!”
For barely a moment I saw his eyes shift,
Away from the cold and the snow blown in drifts..

To the window that danced with a warm fire’s light
Then he sighed and he said “Its really all right,
I’m out here by choice. I’m here every night.”
“It’s my duty to stand at the front of the line,
That separates you from the darkest of times.

No one had to ask or beg or implore me,
I’m proud to stand here like my fathers before me.
My Gramps died at ‘Pearl on a day in December,”
Then he sighed, “That’s a Christmas ‘Gram always remembers.”
My dad stood his watch in the jungles of ‘Nam’,
And now it is my turn and so, here I am.

I’ve not seen my own son in more than a while,
But my wife sends me pictures, he’s sure got her smile.
Then he bent and he carefully pulled from his bag,
The red, white, and blue… an American flag.
I can live through the cold and the being alone,
Away from my family, my house and my home.

I can stand at my post through the rain and the sleet,
I can sleep in a foxhole with little to eat.
I can carry the weight of killing another,
Or lay down my life with my sister and brother..
Who stand at the front against any and all,
To ensure for all time that this flag will not fall.”

” So go back inside,” he said, “harbor no fright,
Your family is waiting and I’ll be all right.”
“But isn’t there something I can do, at the least,
“Give you money,” I asked, “or prepare you a feast?
It seems all too little for all that you’ve done,
For being away from your wife and your son.”

Then his eye welled a tear that held no regret,
“Just tell us you love us, and never forget.
To fight for our rights back at home while we’re gone,
To stand your own watch, no matter how long.
For when we come home, either standing or dead,
To know you remember we fought and we bled.
Is payment enough, and with that we will trust,
That we mattered to you as you mattered to us.”

May this season bring peace to your heart and to your home,

Todd

Dec 19 2008

Giving Anonymously In Utah

Hey! There’s another Secret Dollar Man… or… Woman… out there!

Check this out!!!

http://www.kcsg.com/news/local/35837259.html

Blessings to you and to everyone who gives anonymously!

Todd

Dec 14 2008

AvoPro of New Zealand

I have been incredibly fortunate to meet some wonderful folks through Give Away A Dollar A Day…

My new friend, Hooshang Hasan, of New Zealand, runs a business called AvoPro, growing Avocado trees to sell and to serve Avocado lovers every where!! Hooshang recently blessed me with this wonderful letter:

Hi Todd,

Today, at work, I was thinking how to apply your “Give Away A Dollar A Day”.

I’m in New Zealand and it’s difficult to tuck in a one dollar coin somewhere, for someone to find, and smile.

You may remember I grow avocado trees for sale. Well, my business was slow for couple of weeks and somewhat short of cash, too. I knew I had to do something to get unstuck.

I now understand that in order to be in the flow of abundance, I must GIVE FIRST.

So how and what to give away in order to apply Todd’s magic formula?

A courier came to pick up three plants for a client from two weeks ago. I was short of cash and also didn’t seem right to offer the guy a coin.

I was still thinking while he picked up the plants and started for his van.

My good chance of “Give Away” was fast slipping away. Quickly, I went to help him load the plants, and casually offered him a cup of coffee!

To my utter delight he accepted.

I made the coffee for him and he sat down to drink it. I grabbed an apple from the fridge to eat and keep him company. There was one more apple left and I thought of giving it too. He accepted.

We had a nice conversation and he went on his way.

Later, in the evening, my wife handed me the phone. It was a client for three plants. The first in more than two weeks!

Was this a coincidence?

I advertise for sure. People find me from all kinds of resources and word of mouth too.

There’s always a logical explanation for everything and if something defies logic then some discard it as delusion or misguided thinking or simply lack of knowledge, etc.

Amazingly it depends on HOW YOU THINK.

If you think it ain’t so, then it ain’t so.

If you think; “Yes! It works!”

It works.

It works.

Thanks Todd.

Hooshang A Hasan
www.avopro.org
info@avopro.org

Blessings to you Hooshang!

Todd

Dec 09 2008

Unconditional Love

I’ve learned so much from Give Away A Dollar A Day. And I am coming to understand that its lasting and graceful lesson is that giving, in it’s truest and purest form, is unconditional.

Now most often, when we hear the word “unconditional”, we think of love…

And I can think of no better example of unconditional love than this one…

Many, many thanks go out to the incredible photographer, Tanja Askani. I have not been able to find her personal web site, but here is a collection of photos of “Bambi” and “Thumper” from Tanja Askani.

Blessings to you in unconditional loving, and giving, this day,

Todd

Dec 04 2008

Banish The Blahs

My friend Joan Adams has written a new book called Banish The Blahs. Now I have to tell you, this is a really cool book! It’s one of those “feel good” kind of things! It contains 28 articles that are all written to lift your spirits very high.

(Oh… and one of the writers is… ahem….. yours truly :)

OK, I know, most of what I write about here has to do with giving. So at first, I wondered how this fit with all that…

Well, it didn’t take me too long to realize that this incredible book is about giving TO YOURSELF!!! When you lift yourself up and out of the blahs, you are giving a most precious and life affirming gift to you!

I have read it and it is great. Get Banish The Blahs today!

Blessings,

Todd

Dec 01 2008

A-Hidin’ In A Christmas Tree

This is the Christmas Tree in the lobby of our office building.

And… if you look a little closer…

… you’ll see that the Secret Dollar Man is at it again!

:)

Nov 27 2008

Unconditional Giving Begins At Home

I wonder if I’m alone in this…

Many times throughout my life, I have had grand ideas of making a difference in the world. I’ve published web sites and spread the word about global prayer. I have spoken to congregations about creating positive change. I write this blog, and the weekly Inspirations From Give Away A Dollar A Day, for lots of folks to be energized by.

That’s all good. Very good.

But what if I do all of this inspiration for others outside of my family, only to come home and be crabby to the ones who love me unconditionally?

Sometimes life works the best when things are kept simple. So today, instead of trying real hard to make a difference in the world, I think I want to make a difference with my own family, right here at home.

If this rings just the tiniest bit true for you, will you join me today by giving unconditionally to the ones you love most, right in your own home?

Blessings, and Happy Thanksgiving!

Todd

Nov 22 2008

A Personal Bailout

With all of the talks of bailouts and the news of fear around the global economic situation, I wanted to share something with you from a personal experience.

In July of last year, 2007, I was meditating one morning with a question on my mind, a question for Spirit. Three years prior, I had made some very poor financial and investment decisions that were detrimental not just to me but to my whole family. I didn’t know at the time how much damage was being done, but all of this unraveled and came to a head mid last year. As the sole income earner in my family, I had frittered away just about all of our savings, and my resultant income wasn’t enough to keep up with our bills. I’m a degreed engineer, and consider myself reasonably intelligent, so there was really no excuse for what I had done, save for greed and recklessness. I had also done extensive interviewing to try and get back up to my previous income level, but nothing was panning out.

So in my meditation, I asked Spirit what to do. I had run out of ideas. I didn’t know where to turn next. I didn’t know how to get us back on track. What was amazing about this particular meditation, though, was that this was one of the only times I can remember where I truly let go. (Not easy for an engineer, and a guy, to do!) I knew that the long string of mistakes were mine and mine alone. So my vow to Spirit was to shut up this time and listen, and then act upon whatever it was that I heard.

The answer didn’t come right away. I sat for a number of mornings. But eventually it did, and what I heard was pretty weird, mind you. The guidance I received was to let go of my money. Well, OK, my response back to Spirit was, “how can I when I don’t have anything left to give or to let go of?!” I cooled down after a couple minutes and began to feel an unexpected peace and a presence and a truth in all this. And I sat for a few more mornings until it became even clearer. What I was guided to do was to begin to give away a dollar every day.

It’s now November 2008, and I’m still going. That adds up to about 425 days in which I’ve given away a dollar thus far.

What has been the most powerful about this, though, has been what I’ve learned and what I’ve experienced, and what has changed in my life and in my family’s life. I’ve learned, through hindsight, that the recklessness I caused was the result of me only thinking about me. I was a “what’s in it for me” kind of person and it finally came crashing down on me. And what I’ve experienced from turning this around through every day giving has been a renewed love for my wife and my family. Giving to them, and even to my friends, without agenda or without the expectation of something from them. I had no idea then the wonderful changes that were in store for me when I began the shift from getting to giving. This has all been such an incredible blessing.

In that meditation last year, I had every reason to doubt Spirit’s sage advise. Here I was bleeding all of our savings, running out of money, and I was supposed to start giving what I thought I didn’t have. And, by all appearances, we – meaning the United States and the global community – are running out of money, too, and should be running for shelter before the ultimate time bomb drops on this crisis.

But I took a chance. I got quiet, and sat still, and listened. I went counter to conventional wisdom and began to give when there wasn’t much to give. So I’m curious – what if we (the collective we) began to do this right now? What if we loosened our tight grip of fear of losing our money, and started to give, every day, even if it were in small ways? This simple practice has brought miracles and joy to my life. I can only imagine what it would do on a collective scale.

Thank you for letting me share this story.

Blessings,

Todd

Nov 17 2008

I Wanna Give Now

This is one of the best new ideas in giving that I have seen come along in a while. And from what I can tell, there is absolutely no catch and no hidden selling.

Check this out –> www.IWannaGiveNow.com

On top of that, I just love this website. It’s bright, sunny, and makes me feel GOOD every time I look at it!!

To Dave Slocombe, aka the Bald Guy in a Blue House, I say Thank You!!!

Blessings,

Todd

Nov 08 2008

I Ain’t Touchin’ It

So I was with a couple of team members of my company that were in from out of town. We were in our customer’s lobby getting ready for the next meeting. I had to take a quick bathroom break.

I hadn’t given away my dollar yet, so I decided to place it inside of the next paper towel to be pulled down from the dispenser on the wall right next to the sink. I walked back out to the lobby, and sat down, feeling pretty smug.

While we chatted some more in our group, one of my colleagues got up to go to the bathroom. Well… You know where this is going, don’t you?

After he was finished, he came back, sat down, and looked at the two of us, saying, “You won’t believe what just happened. A dollar bill dropped out of the paper towel dispenser when I took a towel!”

I asked him what he did with it, and he said, “I ain’t touchin’ it, because it seems like a trick, one of those ‘too good to be true kinda things’, ya know. So I just left it on the counter.”

And then, right before we moved on to the next conversation, he replied, “Now, if it had a been a one hundred…”

Hmmm…

OK, so the next time YOU find a bill in the paper towel dispenser… Take it! ‘Cause ya never know, it just might be a gift from The Secret Dollar Man!

Blessings,

Todd

Nov 02 2008

Learning Experiences

When I first started to Give Away A Dollar A Day, I journaled on what I was doing, how I was doing it, and what I was experiencing. I recently ran across some of those notes that I wrote early on about what I was learning along the way. I thought that it might be interesting for you to read. Here they are:

What have I learned? What am I learning?

I’ve learned that most people are really good, and want to return the dollar they just found to its rightful owner.

I’ve learned that some people prefer to look the other way and pretend they don’t notice it.

I’ve learned that some people are distrusting and think there’s a scam involved.

I’ve learned that some people are optimistic opportunists and just say “Thank you God”, and then pick it up and claim it as their own.

I’ve learned that I am no longer disinterested when I see even a dime on the ground. I am now grateful no matter what I find, even a penny.

Blessings to you this day!

Todd

Oct 27 2008

Forgiveness

In my meditation this morning, I was practicing Ho’opanopano – an ancient prayer consisting of, “I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you, and I love you” – all spoken with humility and deep love to The Divine.

When I got to the second part, “please forgive me”, I was surprised at what I found.

In this meditation, I was expressing being sorry for not living with an open heart and for not being in the ever-present flow of Spirit. And I was really feeling this. It was an admission, but it was also a releasing.

When I said, “please forgive me”, I heard a peace coming from Spirit, from the Universe, that I am not, was not, never have been, and never will be judged by God. God doesn’t judge. If God is all-that-there-is and unconditional love, then God cannot judge. I’ve believed that for quite some time. But what I got this morning was that it was I who needed to forgive me. I was the one doing the judging, not God.

And here was the surprise… Ho’opanopano is really a releasing process so that a person can take responsibility for their life and move on. I was right on the cusp of this, but I paused at the point that I “heard” Spirit say this through me – “I need to forgive me”.

Blessings to you this day in giving and forgiving,

Todd